Anonymous asked: Are you a robot?
Anonymous asked: Are you a robot?
dee-andra asked: sorry, this is the continuation of the last msg.. So then he told me he didnt want to see me after telling me for the longest time that he did. Anyways.. One day I went online and realized he didnt answer my emails or messages and that he blocked me off him facebook and everything. I was really hurt and that was in january and he hasnt spoken to me or made any contact with me since. I'm really hurt that he just cut me off like that after so long as friends. Do you have any advice for me at all?
he sounds like an ass, don’t waste your time on him. x
Anonymous asked: My ex and I recently started to talk again. I know I'm over him because it was 4 years ago but he's told me that he still loves me. I don't know how to react. He wants me to try and love him again, but I can't. What should I do?
Nobody can tell you what to do or what not to do, whatever you feel like the right decision is, just follow your heart. And if in the end it doesn’t work out, just use it as an experience and learn from it. :D x
Anonymous asked: long story: so i had this best friend, and every time i liked a guy she would date him. recently i had this thing with a guy and she started talking to him on facebook even though she had never met him in her life. then he told me that he was disappointed because they were going to meet up and plans changed. so i cut her out of my life and he cut me out of his life. now they are deliberately posting things on the internet they know ill see just to hurt me. how do i make it stop hurting me?
getting over someone takes time and eventually when you get there, what they do don’t affect you anymore. It’ll take time for their posts to stop hurting you but another alternative is blocking them off. x
geekdiaries99 asked: There is this guy I REALLY like and we text 24/7 but I don't know why but I can barley talk to him and he doesn't make much of an effort to talk to me either. What should I do?
if you guys text 24/7, I’m sure you both are already more or less friends, so it shouldn’t be too scary to go up to him and say hi, and even if it’s scary, try to build up the confidence to. Guys like girls who are confident. x
Anonymous asked: I have been dating a boy for 2 years. I am absolutely crazy about him and totally in love with. We haven't had sex yet. We have been talking about it.. Will it ruin my relationship or make it better?
Since you have reached thins certain stage, I’m assuming the both of you are absolutely sure about each other. I just want to tell you that sex is not necessarily the answer all the time. Sometimes, many couples think sex is like the boundary that you cross to take your relationship to the next level. To prove your love for one another. However, your love for each other can be proven in other ways. I’m not going to lecture you about not having sex before marriage cause let’s face it, this is the modern world and I’m sure most people don’t follow that nowadays. What I will tell you is that sex is something special to be shared with by two people, not some act or declaration of love. It binds you to each other and is a wonderful thing. There is no right or wrong answer as to weather it will make it better. If you feel like you are completely comfortable with it and so is he, then fine. But if you are having second thoughts and you feel like you are not ready eventhough you are in love, then dont. X
Anonymous asked: Theres this girl on my team and she's really mean, like if i did something good she'll be like move out of my way and what not. Not nice things to say when you haven't done anything to them. I don't want to go up to her and be like you're really mean because first I can't second my life would end there. She's popular and blah blah blah but its really making me mad. The thing that bugs me the most is that karma never gets her!
First of all, do not let her take advantage of you. I’m not judging you or anything but I’m pretty sure she is targeting you because you’re a nice or shy person and she knows you wouldn’t step up to her. I understand that she is popular and all that but there will come a point when enough is enough. You have to stand up for yourself, dont let her torment or harass you like that. If you don’t wish to be too confrontational, you dont have to shove her or get into a screaming fight. The next time she says something like that, dont look intimidated. Look genuinely angry at her and say something like ‘there’s no need to rude’ to show that you are the bigger person. She’s just trying to get a rise out of you, so don’t let her get to you. It may seem like karma is not getting her but maybe there’s more to the story. She might be going through something harsh too that she’s hiding. Anyways, stand up for yourself. Know your value as a person and remember that she has no right to treat you that way. X
Anonymous asked: how can i be brave again if so many people let me down, closest ones to me were the ones hurting me the most and i feel so insecure; because of them im too affraid of letting people in my life, one minute i struggle to keep my shin up... the next people hurt me. How can i be a queen when im hardly achieving the respect of a princess. I stopped believeing in happy endings :(
That’s the thing about life. Sometimes, it can feel like its being pretty cruel to you. Suddenly everything’s all wrong and the people who you think you can trust are the ones that are hurting you the most. Things like these happen to everyone. You feel like there’s no way out and no matter what you do, you can’t escape it. The world is just a cold, empty place.
But here’s the thing, life can also bring beauty and happiness into your life. I know it may seem as though everything is going wrong for you, but just remember that after a heavy rain, there’s always a rainbow. You have to let go of the people that are not good for you and welcome in those that will bring sunshine into your life. You must get rid of the fear of not being good enough and transform into a someone who is brave and strong. Not only for yourself but to others as well that are feeling the same way.
There is a happy ending out there for everyone, for you. All you have to do is let go of the fear, the pain, the suffering and embrace the new things and the good things that will come your way. You are a fighter and you will not give in or back down to what other people think of you. Keep your chin up because those people who hurt you will never understand you and are not worth it.
I believe in you, and as long as you believe in yourself, that’s all that matters. X
Anonymous asked: Hey theres this guy i like in school and i want to talk to him but im scared to. Im afraid he might not like me, especially cuz im shy and quiet, and im having difficulty figuring out if i should just talk to him or not. Any advice?
Hey there. This is a classic problem teenagers face and I have one thing to tell you: go for it. If you like him enough and he’s intriguing, then by all means I think you should try to talk to him. And since you’re shy, maybe you can take this as a way to open up to people more and come out of your shyness. If you’re scared that he might not like you then you can always talk to him in a friendly manner. There’s no need to be too forward, just smile at him and say something like “hey, you’re in my (whatever class) right? Was there homework?” or if he isn’t in your class, just make eye contact and smile. That would probably make him notice you. So yeah, go for it. X
Anonymous asked: There's this boy I really like. He's new to our school and we only have P.E. together but we only talk every other day. How can I talk to him more and get our conversations to be more than just a, "Hi, how are you?" kind of thing?
Hey there. Um there are a couple of ways to do that. You could talk about what he likes, which band he likes, what’s his favorite show stuff like that. Just little things about him that can help you develop a more closer relationship. Maybe find something that you guys have in common and be like ‘Oh I heard you like this and this and so do I!’. Usually that would keep the conversation going and you guys will have tons to talk about. Also, don’t forget to smile at him when you see him or a little wave to show him you’re friendly and you’re someone he can talk to. X