Anonymous asked: how can you tell if he's using you?
Depends. What is he doing to make you think that?
Anonymous asked: how can you tell if he's using you?
Depends. What is he doing to make you think that?
Anonymous asked: Your advice for getting over a guy seems reasonable and all. But what if this guy is my best friend? And I see him every day. And I talk to him every day. If I didn't, he'd be sad and so would I. I can say with confidence that he cares for me and I care for him. In what way, I'm not too sure. Sounds all great and perfect and you're probably wondering: what's wrong? Go for it!
Here's the catch: He's taken. By my friend since sophomore year. I met him at the end of junior year when they started dating.
One of those "Oh, woe is me!" situations. Oh, him and I are headed to the same college too. What to do?
If they seem like a steady couple that has a chance in the future, DO NOT make a move. There will be other guys for you but what if this guy is the one she was meant to be with? Here’s something I always tell myself; If it’s meant to be, it will be. Sorry for the late reply, we’ve been really busy!
Anonymous asked: so there's this guy who's sits beside me in class. he constantly will get papers for me and yet he smells..so I decided to tell the professor to move. I did and I do feel bad. then two days after, he decided to move somewhere else too. and I really feel uncomfortable tht he keeps starring at me. helpp! what should I do?
Obviously, he’s interested in you. Not much you can do here but be honest with him. Try talking to him and see what he’s up to and then see how it goes from there. Sorry for the late reply, we’ve been really busy!
Anonymous asked: How wrong is it to cheat?
And how wrong is it to be the one they cheat with?
Very wrong. You really shouldn’t cheat on whoever you’re with. If you really liked the guy, you wouldn’t cheat and if you don’t, why are you even with him? And if you are the one they cheat with just shows how little your dignity is. Be respectful of people’s relationship. Don’t go around ruining them. Think of it this way, if you were in a relationship, and your partner cheats on you with someone else, how would you feel? Cheating is never okay. Never have, never will. I’m sorry if it sounded harsh, but that’s my honest opinion.
Anonymous asked: Does it mean anything when you catch a guy looking at you? Whether it be across the room or a few feet away?
It might mean something but don’t take it the wrong way or over think it. Guys always send mixed signals so don’t get confused with it. :)
Anonymous asked: Im 13, 14 in two months and iv known this guy for years now and we've been getting really close well we've fallen for each other he is amazing always makes me smile always talks about cuddles not sex theres just one problem he is 18 he's not a perv or anything and my family do know him he is amazing, but what do i do about the age thing? i really want to be with him"/
Honestly, the age thing isn’t a big deal. Age is just a number, unless he’s old enough to be your parents, then that’s just weird. :p He seems like a really great guy. Plus, the age gap isn’t that big. So I don’t see anything getting in the way of the two of you.
Anonymous asked: i kissed this guy at a party, and now i kinda like him, and then i found out my friends kissed him recently. she always does things like this, and i dont know what to do :( i really like this guy, but now i feel like i have no chance with him
You shouldn’t waste your time on a guy who can’t be faithful. And if your friends knew that you liked him or even kissed him, they shouldn’t be doing what they did either. Don’t bother liking someone who isn’t worth it. There will be way more guys, don’t spend your time being hung up on a guy who isn’t worth it.
Anonymous asked: Hi. I had an ex boyfriend of more than 2years and we now have a 1yr old son. We had been in an on and off relationship. Recently, I broke up with him. He wasn't supportive of me nor our son. Is this the proper thing for me to do? I feel so used and wasted. It seems like everything is gone but on the other hand. I feel like bursting out into his face with a slap.
If he really didn’t seem to care about you or your son, don’t bother trying to change him into a person he really can’t be. Although it may seem that it might be the right thing to do for your son, it isn’t. You can’t make him be someone he isn’t or won’t be. It may be hard for you to continue your life with your son without him, but if you think what you’ve done is best for your son, then I’m sure it’ll work out. Good luck! :)
Anonymous asked: So I was in a relationship with this guy and I REALLY love him, he broke up with me and we lost contact, we go to the same school and we're in the same class together, a new girl (which was my so called bestfriend) came to school,well she's blonde & I'm a brunette ,she loves him know and I'm not sure that he loves her or not but he goes over to her place at weekends and they french kiss all the time, we had 2 HUGE fights ,between me and them , but I made things right with her, I want him back :(
What happened between you and him before? If it didn’t work out then, it probably won’t work out if you try again. There are many other guys that you’ll find and he won’t be the only one. Give it a few months and see if you really still do love him and if you do, then try talking to him and see what he thinks. :)
Anonymous asked: she make me feel very special yesterday. and yet ignored me for the next day. we have been like this for a few months. she got jealous sometimes when i try to make a conversation with other girl. but she keep make feel unwanted. should i try harder or move on?
Maybe she’s just insecure. Or she’s just scared to get hurt that’s why she doesn’t want to get to close to you. Definately try harder. :)
